Saturday, October 12, 2013

What is the real problem?

Well, most part of India is right now talking how women are being treated in this country. How men have become rape machines? But won't any of you ask "How good a woman is to a stranger she comes across nowadays? Especially a young guy. This might partly be because of the sensationalism that media has created which has given much more space in the mind of every women for the extra insecurity.

 As a matter of fact, every man in this country cannot be a rapist. India is growing and evolving at a massive pace. There are individuals who are really professional. Men really respect women for what they're. Both professionally and sexually, women are respected across India in many parts. It is not just a statement but a fact. You can compare a 1900's or even 1990's to this date. Women have been given their freedom in a lot of ways. The evolution of women being dominated to women dominating in all fields have taken place. Bharathiar would be happy now to see the freedom that is given in many places to women in India. In some parts they've been given freedom to a level of domination. This cannot be denied. Is this freedom really being misused and misinterpreted? Do they have the same level of decency that they expect out of every man? A woman is given reservations in almost everything. You board a bus and you can find women being given special seats and these women  talk about being treated equally. The point here is, it should not be like a strict law to control the menace of rapists. A legal change can control the issue to some extent, but is it really a proactive solution creates a doubt in every individual's mind. Can the world's largest democracy be controlled by a law?  Of course, a point should be understood that all men are not so good. The problem rather, should be analysed from a psychological level. Every issue in the society cannot be solved through a legal approach. Instead the root cause of the problem should be the prime target.

 Illiteracy might be a major cause for this issue. Illiteracy can lead to arrogance and that can be eradicated by having a strong education system, by ensuring an increase in the literacy rate. There is also an added threat due to the propaganda of rapes in India by the media. The whole country is watching it. The media is contributing a lot to the doubt and insecurity in every women that might take the culture in a different direction. It might add some other problem to the society. Fact is, that the nation is undergoing a mode of evolution. Evolution towards a western culture, much of which is contributed by the IT industry who not only do jobs for foreign countries but also bring in the culture, which is inevitable and which is good in one sense or the other. There is no problem in bringing in the culture, but is our mind also evolving at the same rate. Is it not important to have a balance between the clothes that we wear and the perception of the humans wearing such type of clothes in an person's mind? There is a huge amount of difference between changing lifestyle and a perception of the lifestyle at a psychological level. The gap between this can be the problem. There are lot of people who are capable of changing atleast the future. I feel teachers and schools contribute much to these issues. Teachers handle individuals and this problem has to be dealt at an individual level. Much of it can be attributed to the thoughts of individuals.

The competition between the sexes play a very vital role. Women dominate in almost all fields now and have developed to the level of becoming entrepreneurs. Now even at schools, girls score more than the boys. It starts right from an adolescent age. The thought of revenge can be sowed at this age and what has been sowed reap when they become equipped. The thought of revenge over the opposite sex can be a reason. There are many such hidden reasons that gets magnified when you see it from a country's perspective. Leaders of this country should be proactive and should concentrate on matters of prime concern rather than fighting for having a constituency behind them. Having a very strong system and control over the country is what they're recruited for. Are they doing it correctly? What is the real problem? Is it really the People or the system that they're being played with? A question that takes more debates and discussions to give a solution.

Satz